When Things Go Wrong Don't Go with them: Follow This Advice

 
When things go wrong do not go with them but stop and try to calm down first and realize that these are all the thoughts you have thought so far and have manifested in your reality. Do not go with things that go wrong as they will not bring you into the desired state of happiness and success. Every success lies in us as an opportunity we can take to change our lives for the better than our current state of affairs.


When things go wrong we take the blame for them and create an even worse state of life. Yes, we are guilty because we had negative thoughts about ourselves and the future even though we were not aware of it but now that we are ready to change our path to a better future, we now know that we need to do something.

What can we do to get things moving in a better direction?

We can first if we feel anger allow ourselves to feel it and not escape from that feeling. However angry we are, let us feel it because after we feel it, it will only disappear from us unless we try to pull it out of us as soon as possible.


We are afraid of the negative, especially when we go into the spiritual waters because they have told us if we think negative everything will happen to us badly. That is why when we feel angry when we are ill-willed and hateful, we try to cheer as soon as possible so that we can return to our previous state, but many times we do not go so fast.

That is why it is better to feel anger because that feeling just wants to become a part of us and that we feel it when we do it then it will leave us because we will not create resistance.



If we allow ourselves to be angry and do not resist it or strive to rejoice, then gradually the situation will improve and we will return to the previous state with ease.

The reason we stay long in depression and anger is our resistance to that feeling, or else we add a bunch of bad thoughts that act as oil to the fire. When we surrender to bad thoughts and then start to generate them even more, then our actions keep us in such a gruesome state until we stop doing it.

This is why songs or a person who will turn our attention away from a bunch of negative thoughts that would keep us thinking that this person has not started telling us a whole new topic has helped us so many times.


You see, it all depends on your personality and how positive or negative you are. Also how critical you are to yourself. Because criticism does not bring us a nice feeling, it lowers us emotionally to the low levels from which it is more difficult for us to return to our previous state.

Advice:

Now I am saying here that we allow ourselves to feel angry when we feel that way and then I am saying that we give up negative thoughts. Yes, you got it right.


Try not to think about anything else, but just surrender to the feeling that is trying to become a part of you and that you must feel before it leaves you, and at the same time stop having negative thoughts and think no more at that moment.


Do not create positive thoughts and make yourself think something nice because when you feel bad then you know how you feel and positive thoughts do not make sense in this condition because you have to put a lot of effort to create them.

That is why it is wise to surrender to the bad feeling that surrounds you and to feel it for as long as you simply do not feel relieved when it leaves you and at the same time try not to think about anything but just surrender to the feeling.


It will take from seconds to minutes depending on how well you can relax without thinking about something else but just reliving that feeling.


When things go wrong, as sometimes after doing the exercise mentioned above, they will begin a new yearning that will slowly develop in us and allow us to feel again how we have felt so far.


So we will return to a state that is natural to us and in which we find ourselves most often. It is as you know very well the house in which you live and in which you are most comfortable than anywhere else, so is this condition which is a part of us and to which we are glad to return because we know it.

When you want to change your natural state because, for example, you want to become a much more positive person who has a better opinion of your future, then you will need to change your behavior to open the way to new habits that may allow you to change constantly in your life.


Do not indulge in bad thoughts that close you to your vicious circle of negativity that is hard to get out of if it is easy and natural for you to find plenty of reasons for your bad mood.


No one is the same and it is easy for someone to be happy with the little things and the other person needs a little more reason to be happy. It depends on how we grew up and our beliefs about life.


Many times bad thoughts create a pleasant feeling for us, especially when we are angry with someone and prove ourselves through a bunch of bad thoughts that we can remember to be right about everything we said badly and what that person did to us.


If we have been enjoying these feelings of negativity for too long then it would be much harder for us to justify ourselves and return to a state of neutrality from which our soul can be restored to its original state of happiness faster.


I know that we all want to be happy and that is why when we feel a lack of happiness we find it increasingly difficult to deal with the problems that come our way. With luck, we can only be successful in all the tasks we need to accomplish to have a successful day and a beautiful future.


Everyone has his or her tasks that he or she does daily, and when we don't work and think the same way we think every day, then we are given additional opportunities to turn things around in our favor.


Sometimes it is necessary to go outside your comfort zone because there will be new opportunities that we would not have experienced if we had spent the day in the usual way.


Each new opportunity for change lies in a new way of thinking and a new event that we will experience. If we constantly experience and think the same, nothing will change even though we are eager for change.


Not enough desire alone is needed, and our activities through a change of thought will create a new perspective through which we will look differently at new things that are happening to us and from which we will be ready to accept the new challenges and opportunities that lie ahead.

You see, for some jobs you know you can do them without any problems, and they would always agree to such jobs, and for those you know you don't know, you wouldn't even consider them.


What if your change was hiding in a new job that could have a nicer life and you would never accept it because you're scared?


You see, everything moves from us and only by persistently working on ourselves will we become ready for new opportunities that we will have the courage to accept because we see ourselves through another way of thinking that brings success without remaining in the old way of thinking we would never accept new opportunities that would appear in front of us.

Conclusion on things that go wrong:

Do not go with things that go wrong as they will not bring you into the desired state of happiness and success. Every success lies in us, and as an untapped opportunity and only our work on us through the thoughts and new actions we take will lead us to the right path of success and happiness because every person wants it for themselves. Follow this advice and your life will change for the better.