Reality vs Expectation: When Reality hits your Dreams
We will change our reality through a systematic change in our thinking about ourselves and thus gain a better picture of ourselves than we have now. We will build confidence that will help us to accept the various opportunities that are offered to us to achieve the successful life we dream of and to make our reality meet our expectations. Only in this way will we change our present and focus on a better future.
For reality to change for us, we must take certain steps in the right direction. What is the direction? It is the work on our thoughts, behaviors, and actions that must be consistent.
Our reality and expectations are not the same because we do not work on our thoughts and actions because we have not yet realized our worth, which is much greater than we acknowledge.
We tend to criticize ourselves and have a very low opinion of ourselves, and in fact, we should realize that we are a wonderful being who deserves a nice and comfortable life. Only nobody has told us this yet. So this is a wonderful way to start thinking about yourself in a new way, to see yourself in a much nicer light than before. That is the secret of success.
Every successful person has faith in themselves and thinks that they will succeed in life with their persistence towards the desired goal. This is the belief in our abilities that we need to make our desires come true and our expectations a reality.
We have been learning about ourselves since childhood, but through the people, we grew up with and seeing them and our capabilities, we have taken to heart and their thinking about us has become a part of us because we have accepted it. Why did we accept the opinion from Mom and Dad as ours? Because we didn't know otherwise. Children up to the first four years of life accept everything they are told with ease because they believe in the people who raise them. That doesn't mean these people are bad.
It is only their thinking that arose from their experience and the way they were raised. They only pass on this pattern of behavior and thinking to their children. That's the case with all the people in the world. We all share our beliefs through tips and ways of thinking.
Expectation vs Reality
Our expectations are realistic as much as we allow them to become part of our reality. Don't let anyone tell you the opposite. You can have anything you want if you can accept it. How?
We will change our reality through a systematic change in our thinking about ourselves and thus gain a better picture of ourselves than we have now. We will build confidence that will help us to accept the various opportunities that are offered to us to achieve the successful life we dream of and to make our reality meet our expectations.
Our expectation changes depending on what condition we are currently in. When we are fulfilled and happy then we will accept the opportunities that lie ahead of us at that moment with greater courage and faith in ourselves that we are ready for the challenges. When we are sad, lonely and depressed, then we will miss opportunities that we will not even notice around us, because then we will look at ourselves from the perspective of a person who is unhappy and unable to progress.
How, then, will we change the situation we are in?
We will change our situation through constant affirmations of ourselves that we will repeat daily and that will lead us on the right path to our dream fulfillment.
Believe that what you think of yourself matters most to your future. Because only with a good opinion of yourself will you build the confidence we need to accept the opportunities that can lead us to the successful life we aspire to.
We need to stop looking at our reality so firmly because of reality changes with our state of being. So when we are happy we enjoy life and nothing stands in the way of our happiness and when we are unhappy we find so many reasons for the sadness that we do not have the will to start doing anything to change the situation.
What steps must we take to secure a happy future?
Every day we will start with a positive affirmation about ourselves, such as:
Every day, I am more successful, happier and more satisfied and I am heading in the right direction.
Repeat this affirmation every free moment: while commuting to work, taking a shower, standing in line for coffee, drinking morning coffee, going to sleep in the evening. Keep these words in your mind every day from morning to evening because these magic words will change your life if you keep repeating them.
Over time, you will start to have a better opinion of yourself and you will be more satisfied with your current state of life and when you have an opportunity for a better job or progress you will be better prepared to take it in that better state and your job will be yours.
Because of working on yourself, you will truly change so much that your expectations and reality will merge into one, and then you will see that you deserve it because you have worked hard for your condition, which must be expressed through your different behavior, thinking and actions that you will take from your new more satisfying state.
We can change our reality when we persistently see ourselves as what we want to become. When we see ourselves every day and night as a successful, well-to-do person, then we must gather enough courage to apply for a job that can earn us more than we have now.
Our reality is changeable just like our thoughts come from our state of being. That is why once the condition of a successful person becomes natural to us, we will never again have to push ourselves to affirm that we are successful and happy, because that will be our new reality from which such thoughts will be as natural to us as we are now to affirm nothing, and thoughts will come naturally to us from the state of being a successful person.
All successful people find themselves in the state of being successful and many are completely unconscious because they have accepted the fact that it is possible for them to be successful, and over time this has become a natural part of them and they do not have to affirm anything because they simply think that way.
That is why every person to whom this is not a natural way of thinking, must start working on their way of thinking to achieve that condition of the successful person become a natural part of him and to change the reality following the new state.
Then our reality will reach our dreams that we have dreamed for so long and have taken nothing to achieve. Even if we did, we felt that we were not yet ready for such success.
You see, this is exactly what kept us from achieving the long-desired success because we were not able to see ourselves as a successful person, even though we secretly wanted it very much.
Nothing will change in our reality until we are 100% ready for that change, because any change will only come naturally to us and that is the only way things will change in the desired direction.
So don't think that a bag of money will fall from the sky in front of you if you want more money, because it won't happen. Why? Because it would be very unnatural for us and would not be consistent with our beliefs about money because many people think that they have to work hard for money to earn it.
You see, everything has to come naturally following the belief that a person has about themselves and their ability to progress. Only when we are ready for success will we then take steps towards that desired goal and it will come to us quite naturally and easily.
Conclusion on reality and expectations:
If we want to change our reality, it's time to take some action towards that desired goal. How? By repeating the magical affirmation that will surely change our lives and our thinking about how happy and successful we are in life.
Take steps in the desired direction and your reality will have to change in line with your new expectations as everything must come naturally to us.
The way you see yourself and the image you have about yourself must be reflected in the reality you live in because if you do not have the confidence to take certain steps to accept a certain job position that could make you more money, you will not take it because you will not be ready for that step.
That is why it is very important to work on our way of thinking to improve the image we have of ourselves so that we come in a state where we are ready for new challenges and opportunities that will come before us in the future. Accept the challenge and change your reality to your expectations.
